Saturday, September 12, 2009

Ingredient For Success ?!

Ever wondered how Donald Trump - became Donald Trump ?! How most stars are able to wake up to work and easily get paid - while still "enjoying life". . Ever considered to think about how they managed to keep going after long nights of work and VIP parties ?! The answer my friend , may not be on your wrist but its defiantly all around you ; TIME MANAGEMENT . Now I'm not promising you a whole heap of cash to supply your every need but i do promise that if you do this right the first time and continue to practice it throughout your daily lives - you're future endeavors will not seem so far . You'll have everything in your grasp and you'll have more time for yourself REGARDLESS OF YOUR SCHEDULES . .

Now here's what you do . . First things First

set priorities and manage your time to meet deadlines
avoid waiting til the last minute . when studying/working get in the habit of beginning with the most difficult subject or task. always be ready to make your brain work, you'll have more energy to take them on when you are at your best. For more difficult courses of study/working task try to be set a time to begin and end - understand that most of the time at work we are limited to certain amount of hours that we can actually work per task , so remained focus and try to finish a little before your "end time".

set and achieve goals
don't just say it , do it . don't just wish it , make it happen . "SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY" and of course the cliche term "Actions speak LOUDER than words"

get over your internal barriers when putting your goals and plans in action
never mind the fact that people don't believe in you. forget about any issues that will not / does not need to be stressed further. and focus on yourself and what you wish to accomplish out of life. regardless of who has your back , know that FIRST you are doing this for the better of you and THEN of course for everyone who actually believed in you

effectively organize your daily actions
step by step . where you will start and where you wish to end. this probably should've came first BUT don't just randomly blurt out things . Needless to say - don't "sell yourself a dream" . understand that in pursuing your dreams , there are steps that need to be taken . . IE lets just say for arguments sake you were interested in modeling during fashion week - NOW don't think cause you have a pretty face you could just walk up there , with no experience , no nothing (it MIGHT work but what are the odds of that? there are thousands of qualified models) - so you need a backup plan . working on your portfolio might work and knowing who to actually work with might help you out to. ALWAYS DO YOUR RESEARCH . don't just do things because they are cool at the moment. plan it out , once again step by step .

make smarter decisions faster
think on your feet or i believe the correct term is be on your toes at all times. an opportunity might slap you in the face and you may not realize it fast enough. learn to make positive and safe decisions as quick as possible . think fast but rationally .

uncover better options
if one job doesn't work for you - there's a 1,000 better ones . . look into them
if studying alone doesn't work for you - look into forming a study group .
SAVE TIME , because you cant get it back .
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work in a team or build one
(uncover better options) face it - we all cant do things ourselves although we like to THINK we can . try to maintain or have at least 2 reliable sources/ friends that are trustworthy , dedicated and actually care about your well being - vice versa .

prevent burnout
take a second to sit back and relax (after you are done all your work , obviously) . understand whats in front you and know how to handle it positively . make time for yourself to just take in the fact that in order to be anything , you have to work for it.

Effective aids:
-Create a simple "To Do" list
-Daily/weekly planner
-Long term planner
-Use a monthly chart so that you can plan ahead.
-Long term planners will also serve as a reminder to constructively plan time for yourself
-Decent friends (keep in mind misery loves company and a lot of people don't want the best for you BUT as long as you want it for yourself , you'll understand that people need to be removed from their "pedestals" and walked away from BEFORE they drag you down and carry on with their lives)

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CHINKZ <3

Friday, September 4, 2009

Play Your Role. Resepect Yourself.

love pictures Pictures, Images and Photos

Understand that what you're about to read is not sectioned off to one particular gender. I'm not stereotyping, I'm just writing down what I see. I tried long and hard to find the positive side of this but clearly we are a part of a generation where it doesn't matter how long and hard we ponder on things , for some things there just isn't an answer or is there ?!

We

Are

Apart

Of a generation where very few people have a clear understanding of respecting themselves or understanding that respect comes before everything.

Now once again I AM NOT STEREOTYPING. Just stating facts!! There is no reason in hell; why one guy needs more than one girl. It’s not only disgusting but its time consuming - jumping from one to another like really? What’s up with that? If you have one already, why do you need another one?! The age of pimps and players are done with. Lets create something more usefull to this generation rather than silly terms and fashion trends - elevate your mind and become not only better on the outside but on the inside as well.
I tried to understand this and I still get nothing. Some say "so what if its time consuming - two is always better than one”. Hm maybe so – but if that’s the case is two unplanned pregnancies better than one, is two STDs better than one. I mean give me answers.

Fettymag@gmail.com


TO BE CONTINUED. .


<3 Chinkz

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Lost But Found.

Ive been gone for a minute but I'm def back with a whole different approach. Yeah Yeah Ive been MIA for a while , mainly because Ive been putting together , a whole new layout to FETTY . Ive decided that i want this to be more than just something for entertainment. I decided that i want each and everyone to grasp something - while reading this blog ' up until the site gets running of course. No longer will there be entries about me :( sad but true and no longer will i include already made it and have it all "stars" . This will begin to be what i set it out to be in the first place . . A "Promotion", A gateway for aspiring leaders and entertainers :) look out for future events and future blogs - i have soo much planned for you.

Fettymag@gmail.com

Thursday, April 16, 2009

BLACKBERRY !!!

Yes Ive upgraded from a sidekick lx to a blackberry curve. YAY ME

Email Me With Comments Or Suggestions.
Liciababy@tmo.blackberry.net
Fettymag@gmail.com

The Truth?

Someone emailed me to ask how come the "A" is a different color from the rest of the letters in FETTY MAG and its not a brain teaser or anything but MY NAME IS ALICIA and um yeah LOL it works for me, i guess.

Kanye's Tatt

CLASSIC & APPROPRIATE. = A POEM BY THE LOVELY MAYA ANGELOU..
(NO PICS YET)But Need less to say this tattoo has alot of meaning & I Love It !

Still I Rise


You may write me down in history
With your bitter, twisted lies,
You may trod me in the very dirt
But still, like dust, I'll rise.

Does my sassiness upset you?
Why are you beset with gloom?
'Cause I walk like I've got oil wells
Pumping in my living room.

Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I'll rise.

Did you want to see me broken?
Bowed head and lowered eyes?
Shoulders falling down like teardrops.
Weakened by my soulful cries.

Does my haughtiness offend you?
Don't you take it awful hard
'Cause I laugh like I've got gold mines
Diggin' in my own back yard.

You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I'll rise.

Does my sexiness upset you?
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I've got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs?

Out of the huts of history's shame
I rise
Up from a past that's rooted in pain
I rise
I'm a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.
Leaving behind nights of terror and fear
I rise
Into a daybreak that's wondrously clear
I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
I rise
I rise
I rise.

Maya Angelou

Day 26



GLAD THEY MADE UP But if you ask me Q needs to work on his communication skills instead of trying to fight everyone and crying all the damn time. Theres a time to be sensitive but geesh

Cassie New Hair Style.


In the words of my sister "what is this world coming too?"
She had mad long hair and somewhere down the line things just went bad. My opinion atleast add a design, the plain side fade - is not doing it for me -_-

Word To The Wise.

I came across this blog and i have to say i was very shocked by all the things i read. I mean im not going to put the blog up until futher notice but as far as im concerned the majority of people - put it on themselves to have "someone" look down on them and blog about them. tsk. i mean ofcourse it is not my business and i try to keep my fair distance from the "mix" and from people who surround themselves with no-gooders but i feel like , had you kept your business to yourself - NO ONE will have the ability to air you out and destroy whats left of your rep. Theres a fine line between having fun and doing what has to be done - the RIGHT way.

So word to the wise , like i always tell my friends - dont mix business with pleasure and everyone that smiles in your face aint your friend. Just like everything that glitters aint gold, feel me?

FRIENDSHIP comes from years of understanding ones personal issues and the ability to stand by them. NOT "oh we went to this party together - shes my friend" NO ! thats not a friend, because she drove you home or let you hold down something because you was short.

I feel like people need to sit back and understand the word friendship and the word respect for thy self and for others. smh once your rep is destroyed its def hard to bring things back to normal, you know - so just think before you speak and so on. AIGHT ?!

&hearts Chinkee

Monday, March 16, 2009

Twitter.

dont know much about the site except that its
a simplier version of myspace and facebook. -_-

im trying it out, so maybe you should too
so far its pretty basic, it allows you to
let your "friends" follow your movements
similiar to the "what you doing" bar on facebook

twitter.com/princesschinkz follow me =P

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Its, Its, Its Serani

Late ?

I Love Musiq & I Love Mary J..
I was in the car with my boyfriend
& this wonderful song comes on =D
LOVE his mohawk , remember when he had a fro haha


If You Leave - Musiq Soulchild ft. Mary J Blige